Divorce in California: a child as a hostage of a dirty mother games.

Inna Stiblina Photo To Marat Gubaydullin

          Divorce is a pretty common thing in the USA. The overall ratio in the country is 50%, in the sunny California – 60%. There are many reasons for that. Registering your marriage is an easy thing and it can take no more than 15 minutes, but the divorce process is not so simple, requires a lot of effort, time and financial resources. Especially, if the parties cannot make a deal, or knowingly expose non-contractual conditions, this process can be devastating for both parties. But it is not the worst thing. Children suffer. This is what we are going to talk about in this article taking as an example the recent divorce process, a 11 year old boy who has come through this hell with dignity, and his own mother who involved him into this. He was sent to prison for juveniles for the sake of mother’s benefits (the possibility for receiving Child Support) and only for the fact that the child wanted to spend more time with his father. She involved her daughter as well. For the time being, a child is living with his father and completely refusing to communicate with his mother and sister. And any mention of his mother and sister gives him a negative reaction, although more than six months have passed since then. One can only imagine what stress the child has gone through. But the story has not finished yet.

          Perhaps, having read the article will help you to evaluate the situation correctly and to avoid unnecessary casualties for anyone in the future, if divorce. Unfortunately, not everyone is capable of it. Some because of indifference, laziness, some just because of the low level of intelligence, or lack thereof, of stupidity, and some simply have other priorities in life. The situation is worsened by people from the social circles with the above mentioned qualities who start giving their advice’s. Well, it is, at least, improper. I have read the materials provided to me to write an article and could not believe that all this nonsense could actually happen. And that is really disturbing, a participant of the conflict, “the liberated woman of the East” (as she calls herself, though born in Lugansk, Ukraine, and has nothing to do with the East, except for a lover and adviser Marat Gubayadullin – Uzbek by nationality, and lawyer Ms. Wazhma Mojaddidi) Inna Stiblina is still dissolving indecent rumors about her child and ex-husband, and blaming for what happened all around, but not herself. Although all materials suggest otherwise. Anything can be said. Further are all details.

          The couple decided to get divorced. They raised an 11 years old boy and the daughter of his wife – 17 years old. The girl has never seen her biological father. She was raised by the first husband in Lugansk, and from one to three by grandmother (while her mother was looking for happiness in the US), then from three to five by the second husband in the United States, and from five to 17 years old by the third husband. They had a small family business – e-Commerce (8 online Internet stores are on her husband’s company and 8 officially on the wife’s). Large house in a prestigious area, overlooking the gold field, with good schools, though a rented one.

          It was obvious that from a financial point of view, there was nothing to share. All what needed to be done is to agree on the son, of course, taking into account his interests. I believe that the highest priority for further decisions has to be children. For they suffer the most. Unfortunately, only husband thought so. Although, the more the child grew, the more time he spent with his father. A boy is a boy, after all, common interests.

          Divorce process can be different. In order to avoid or end the war, military action should not be carried out by both parties. Otherwise, a party that does not respond to military actions of the opposite side will be fully defeated. Wife announced to her husband that knows her rights “very well”. A family business was not interesting for her and she did not want to deal with it – “once you organized it – deal with it yourself”. As she said, it would be more advantageous to declare herself as a low income person, to receive state aid in the form of Welfare and Medical, Child Support, Spouse Support. Then her daughter, who was finishing school and already entered the Santa Barbara University, would be able to get Scholarship and Financial Aid based on low family income. And the husband also will reimburse the cost of her lawyer and pay for housing (Inna has completely refused to participate in the financial payments for the house).

She began to implement her plan into the life. “What a great plan!” But that wasn’t meant to happen except for:

  1. The last paragraph – “liberated woman of the East” Inna Stiblina still works for cash for cleaning houses;
  2. Her daughter did receive Scholarship and Financial Aid based on the mother’s fraudulent activities with taxes and cash income. I’m afraid, only it will not last long. We are talking about taxes in 2015. If you have a formalized business, with net income of about seventy-five thousand dollars for 2015 and confirming that income documents (see below):

Amazon 2015 1099K

PayPal 2015 1099K

Nordstrom 2015 1099-C

2015 Schedule C Worksheet for Form 1040

Having all these documents Stiblina declares an income 377.00 USD for 2015 to the tax service (see below):2015 Decleared Tax Return Amount

Her husband tried to explain, that for such kind of fraud in the United States you can go to the jail, it couldn’t be done like that. It could be easily revealed some day. Later, in the presence of children, she accused her husband that he wanted to put her in jail. 

Inna said to the judge during first court hearing that she had nothing to do with the business, and she had never participated in any business, she is a “poor” and “innocent” housewife, who needed to receive from her husband’s Child Support and Spouse Support for living.

           At the first meeting, she provided to the Court with a false documents of her Personal and Business Income. At the same time, but in another source, Inna by herself confirmed exactly the opposite (see below):

Prove of Business 1

TRANSLATION:

-Inna Stiblina:

“Hi Andrey

I’m looking for a permanent job. I’ve got experience in online sales on eBay and Amazon. I’ve had own business. My responsibilities were:

  • Receive goods
  • Check the number upon the invoice
  • Sort it out at the warehouse
  • Everyday handling and shipping
  • Checking up the warehouse
  • Taking photos of goods
  • Photo editing and photoshoping for listings

Also, I’ve worked as  a sales consultant at Victoria’s Secret. ”    

  –Andrey Kondratev:  

“Hi. Call this number. Ask for Vitalik. He is the boss.”

END

Prove of Business 2

TRANSLATION

-Inna Stiblina:

“You should try online, we, for example, were selling on eBay and Amazon. There  are several ways to lead a business, the plus is – you belong to yourself.”

-Alexey Petrenko:

“What were you selling?

I belong to a company  – Oracle. =)”

-Inna Stiblina:

“You are a witty guy, I can give you some hints. I’ve been in this business for 5 years.”

-Alexey Petrenko:

“I need to find something else besides..

Give some advice”

-Inna Stiblina:

“We were selling accessories for electronics

I’ve got a promoted account left

Top seller”

-Alexey Petrenko:

“Were you buying somewhere and then just selling on Amazon locally”

-Inna Stiblina:

“In China

I’ve had a warehouse

Was in charge of it

Taking photos, editing and then making design for listings”

-Alexey Petrenko:

“I see

I’m not confident with sales

Perhaps just never tried

And I don’t get how it goes”

END
Prove of Business 3

TRANSLATION

-Inna Stiblina:

“It’s lame

It is important to give a start, then it works on its own

It’s not like working behind the counter

You can find lots of video for beginner on YouTube

If you’re interested

What is important – money come in regular while you are staying at home with kids”

-Alexey Petrenko:

“Perfect alternative, of course”

-Inna Stiblina:

“Yeah, if you figure it out, but it is not difficult

You need time, of course, to get it started”

END

Also as you can see on the picture below, Inna is lying to her Attorney, that she never even heard about any business:

“Hello, Lorena,

…….Also, I don’t run any business and did not do any finance for all years been married Sergey. ……..”

Innas Responce about Business

And it is Inna’s profile on LinkedIn, where she is writing that she actually owned the company for last 6 years:

Inna Likedin

Well, the photo below is actually a full recognition for providing false information to the court and then to the tax office. It is about covering up the real incomes. Attorney Services has been paid by credit card and payment hasn’t been received, the lawyer hasn’t taken her case. She couldn’t use earned cash, because it would be necessary to show that money as an income and explain where they have come from. (see below)

Cash Prove

TRANSLATION

-Marat Gubaydullin:

“At work, at last, how are you doing?”

-Inna Stiblina:

“I’m going to Wazme at 3”

-Marat Gubaydullin:

“finally, praised be Allah”

-Inna Stiblina:

“well, the payment has gone through at least”

-Marat Gubaydullin:

“Seems like that

Jesus, can’t they say normally

I think you should have given all in cash at once”

-Inna Stiblina:

“Yeah sure, all my savings, and then worry that I have no money left. Easy to say from the outside. I have Lera I need to help

Don’t argue. =)”

-Marat Gubaydullin:

“You had a stress anyway. You never know what is better or worse in the end.”

-Inna Stiblina:

“From the outside, of course it is easier.

At least  I had money kept, it makes me feel a lot better

Moreover, I shouldn’t show the cash ‘cause there will be questions – Where did I get them? In such a way he will have to reimburse the costs. Don’t worry. I’m using my head.

END

I want to draw your attention to the last sentence: “Do not worry, I’m using my head.”

There are plenty of evidences about Inna’s Income fraud, but I think that’s enough.

It seems, in this process there were heavy drugs or alcohol in large quantities, well or “otherworldly forces.” Otherwise, how can it be explained from reasonable standpoint. (see below):

Konyk s utra

TRANSLATION

-Marat Gubaydullin:

Lol

-Inna Stiblina:

“Missed the exit”

-Marat Gubaydullin:

“Don’t drink in the morning”

-Inna Stiblina:

“I’ve given up ;)”

-Marat Gubaydullin:

“Cognac too”

-Inna Stiblina:

“From basin? Yes!”

-Marat Gubaydullin:

“from soap box”

-Inna Stiblina:

“This is not my size 😉

Tastes differ”

END

About Drugs

 

TRANSLATION

-Marat Gubaydullin:

“I though what a stuff, even wanted to offer you refuse the drugs.”

-Inna Stiblina:

“Are you kidding me?”

END

            There is one question. Whether her lawyer Wazhma Mojaddidi was aware of all fraud actions? Or maybe the lawyer herself advised Inna’s how to implement it properly into action?

But also “otherworldly forces” were involved as a “holy clairvoyant”, some Anastasia  Slobodyan from Kiev, who predicts the future, confidently uses Western Union to transfer money for her services and has an account in Privat Bank. Such an advanced “holy women.” (see below):

Анастасия налоги

TRANSLATION

“I don’t get anything in this. You know better how to do to get away with it

January 27th 2016, 11-10 p.m. user “inna stiblina” <innastiblina@gmailcom>  wrote:

Am I doing it the right way that I’m processing taxes on my own?

Sent from my iPhone”

END

Anastasiy about styding

TRANSLATION

“Study? No, continue doing what you are doing right now, I know it is difficult and exhausting but it will be better

January 27th 2016, 9-39 p.m. user “inna stiblina” <innastiblina@gmailcom>  wrote:

Should I concentrate on the work I’m doing or go studying? If to study – choose a medical major or continue on the basis of my diploma?”

END

Anastasiy about men

TRANSLATION

“Within 2-3 years

January 27th 2016, 9-05p.m. user “inna stiblina” <innastiblina@gmailcom>  wrote:

Nasten’ka, and this man – will he appear soon or should I wait until children grow?”

END

About behavior

TRANSLATION

-Inna Stiblina:

“Boy!

One clairvoyant told me that everything would be fine, and more importantly I would meet my man, who would love and care. So I’m waiting”

-Omar Kitanoff

“It seems she was right. I don’t always get information and not about everyone, but here I’ve got a clear picture.

Local clairvoyant?”

-Inna Stiblina:

“No, from Ukraine

What else did you get?

Here what she wrote to me

Inna, you are strong and wise woman, exactly wise, it is very rare thing nowadays. You live with your head held high and rarely look back…as a queen..even when you know that someone is stabbing in your back, you still behave with dignity, not paying attention at this though it hurts.”

END

Pay attention to the last post. It is a “decent” behavior of the “liberated woman of the East” – it will be discussed further.

             Having made up a plan together with her lawyer and the “clairvoyant” Anastasia (later there will be a fortune teller Galina and the “Siberian shamans”), in April 2016, two months before the first session of the court, during a business trip of the husband, Inna ceases to serve joint business contrary to all logic, what causes irreversible damage to both – her own and husband’s online stores. She just closed her part of business. Apparently, the woman could see her calling in cleaning houses, so she continued to earn for living. “What for do I need a promoted and operating e-Commerce business?” As a result – the suspended sales, oversupply of unsold goods in warehouses, increased costs for storage. Upon arrival, her husband tried to rehabilitate his part of the business. Later, in the MSA (Marital Settlement Agreement), signed by the parties and approved by the court, it was written that Inna’s company – Parma Traiding, must continue business and pay her husband’s company $ 15,398.00 for the goods delivered. (see below):

debt

The child as a hostage of mother’s manipulation.

           It should be noted that the whole process before the trial took nearly a year, and the family continued to live in the same house. Children needed to finish the 2015/2016 academic year. From the submitted documents, it is clear that the relationship between mother and son rapidly deteriorated and she was looking for a solution through a “clairvoyant.” (see below):

Anastasiy about son 1

TRANSLATION

“The boy is good and kind, he has a compassion for people and animals (not everyone has it), he is worrying inside, he loves you and you mean a lot to him, you have a powerful bond, very powerful ( it will remain for the rest of your life, it is your dearest child), but he is under father’s influence – he is a bit afraid of him. Your communication with the son is very important for him, very important..

February 26th 2016, 8-00 a.m. user “inna stiblina” <innastiblina@gmailcom>  wrote:

How do you do, Anastasia! Can you tell me anything about my relationship with the son?”

Anastasiy about son 2

TRANSLATION

“I’ve already told you it is the father’s influence

February 26th 2016, 2-52 p.m. user “inna stiblina” <innastiblina@gmailcom>  wrote:

Then, where does it come from.. .this his attitude to me and what should I exactly do?”

END

The father was fully engaged with the son’s bringing up. Education, sports, fun, spending time together. Take a look at the photo below, it says a lot. This is the final test in mathematics at school. “Now dad you have to be proud of me”.

Final muth test

Later, Inna wrote to her lawyer (see below):

Thanks,

Also, I want to mention a fact, it is difficult to keep Daniel in balance by sharing time 50/50 because his father to discipline on him. Daniel mentioned that my house only place that he can relax. For example, Sergey have an idea that Daniel is getting fat, so that he is focusing him on work out (what is not bad), but at the same time, Sergey got my son to an idea that he has to stop eating potato, bread, all kinds of pasta and other things. Again, that is too much. Daniel is a normal child and has to eat whatever he wants. 

Another thing, if I receive child and spouse support, I can come back to a college and make myself employable, ………”

Email to lawyer

Naturally, you need to feed the baby with a healthy food, not sandwiches or pizza on a daily basis. To love a child means not just pats on the head and saying beautiful words. This is everyday hard work. Unfortunately, his mother did not understand it. Further events showed this.

During the absence of her husband on a business trip for 30 days, no one cared about a child. From his own words, an eleven-year boy spent most of the time at home alone, there was no one to pick him up from school, cook a meal, help with homework – that seriously affected the educational process in general, exercises stopped. At the weekend mother left her son to their friends, and she spent time in San Jose with her lover. Once she took him camping, where the child has witnessed a sexual intercourse by her mother and her lover (at that time) mentioned above, Marat. And apparently other vacationers witnessed the event too. Later, after the trial, the child told his father about it. But after this incident the relationship between mother and son finally deteriorated. There was a constant conflict. The boy repeatedly ran away from his mother out of the house. Reaction of the mother can be seen below.

Daniel Run

TRANSLATION

-Inna Stiblina:

“Daniel has gone outside again and not coming back”

-Marat Gubaydullin:

“What happened?”

-Inna Stiblina:

“Generally, nothing. Dan wanted to draw attention, and he says the child is running away from me

I’m so sick of all of them

-Marat Gubaydullin:

“Oh, I understand you so good”

-Inna Stiblina:

This animal has gone to bed, and the junior one is still outside mocking me. He is hiding from me and wants me to search for him with police”

-Marat Gubaydullin:

“This is difficult. I had the same trouble with Nate. If you can somehow, don’t care. Otherwise, he will do it again and again.

Nate stopped running away when I didn’t call the police two times.

But this is difficult ‘cause I was already calling police when he appeared.

I’m afraid to give any advice, but he wants to manipulate and he doesn’t care who – you or him.”

END

Daniel Run 1

TRANSLATION

-Inna Stiblina:

“Is it suitable for you?”

-Marat Gubaydullin:

“No, not that

It is not about San Jose.

Overall, I need to think”

-Inna Stiblina:

“I told Dan that I’m not gonna stay at home, I have friend everywhere, if you want – let’s go to picnic. If not – stay at home and think whatever you want. And he asks about Max – will he be there?”

-Marat Gubaydullin:

“If Dan comes, I will bring Max with 99% possibility.

Now, by the way, another woman – she has a son Daniel, too – asked about Max too whether he comes or not. Her son is with autism, much better than Nate, and max was the only one he played with”

-Inna Stiblina:

“I see that cannot plan anything, this child has fully uploaded me”

-Marat Gubaydullin:

“let me check if we can take him if there aren’t any plans.

Go on

Ok, I’ll get in touch with the mother tomorrow”

END

I think that the life priorities of this women are clear. But why to treat a child so? And of course, Inna blamed her husband in all deadly sins.

Woman with her lover tried to hang Domestic Violence on her husband and put in prison, they repeatedly called the police, CPS (child protective service), inventing stories, preparing materials for the FBI (as for a dangerous criminal), the immigration police. And every time they got upset when didn’t succeed. If it were successful, this would be a powerful argument for the mediator and in the court. (see below):

Again not domestic Violence 1 Need FBI again not criminal

TRANSLATION

-Marat Gubaydullin:

“Concerning domestic violence, it is too late”

-Inna Stiblina:

“Yes, late

But, perhaps, there will be some advantage”

-Marat Gubaydullin:

“Yes, need to think about it”

-Inna Stiblina:

“You’d better go to bed;)

I missed you Jand we won’t text for two days”

-Marat Gubaydullin:

“Yeah, but then we will meet

Maybe, we should go to FBI on Wednesday?”

-Inna Stiblina:

“As usual, it is not criminal

Thumb down”

-Marat Gubaydullin:

“Driving”

END

              Let’s take a closer look at one of such cases. When her daughter Inna – Valeria Stiblina, was 13 years old, her husband started to notice that Valeria communicated with much older men (18-20 years). The husband seriously talked to Inna about it several times. Why did not she teach daughter how to behave. Because he, as a man, could not have such conversations with a teenage girl. One day a neighbor asked her husband why parents allow a teenage girl to dress so provocatively in school. The husband did not know what to say since he left for work even before the kids woke up. He could not see what was happening, as Inna accompanied children to school. Once again an unpleasant conversation with Ina. But unfortunately, nothing changed, and her husband was forced to intervene. Also, the school grades started to worsen significantly. Valeria’s father forbade her to put on make-up and wear fancy clothes to school. When it happened again, he took all the fancy clothes from the wardrobe. Valeria had to wear clothes bought not in Nordstrom or Macy’s, and Target or Ross. Children had new rules – go to bed without a phone or a tablet. Three months later, there was a very unpleasant experience again. One evening, the husband noticed that Lera was using a telephone for texting in bed and had to take it from her. When he looked at the screen, he was shocked. It was a full-screen photo of the male sexual organ. Having examined messages further, he found more frank dialogue between 13 years old Valeria and 21 years old student. They freely exchanged pictures of their genitals and discussed details of the planned meeting for sex. Moreover, in detail, how the sex will happen. This is after the signals and quarrels on this subject with Inna. Valeria was punished – without a phone for 2 months. Husband had an unpleasant conversation with Inna again. I just cannot understand one thing: the woman who had such an unsuccessful experience with marriages, could not explain her daughter simple things? And even now, in the process of divorce, she has accused her husband that he still keeps all the photos and messages from that incident without any reason by creating stories. Together with her “adviser and assistant” Marat Gubaydullin, giving reports to the CPS (child protective service) and the police. Has it worked out? – see below.

Police Lera Police Conversation

TRANSLATION

-Marat Gubaydullin:

“Yeah”

-Inna Stiblina:

“Nothing at all, the policeman said he understood him”

-Marat Gubaydullin:

“Understood him?

Are they idiots?

Has the policeman left?”

-Inna Stiblina:

“Yes

I’m coming

Lera said that this loser came, and he scammed him. And Social Service was surprised like we messed everything up

Lera’s version. See picture”

-Marat Gubaydullin:

Yeahh

-Inna Stiblina:

“Nonsense?

First of all, he is not her father”

END

“Firstly, it is not her father.” Interesting statement.

Now look at the picture and Facebook correspondence of the mother with two lovers at the same time and compare. Do you find any similarities – sure you do! But the daughter was 13 years old and her mother over forty. Nothing can be done – the genetics.

Inna Selfy Erotic Foto

TRANSLATION

-Inna Stiblina:

“A gift J”

-Marat Gubaydullin:

Wow

-Inna Stiblina:

“For you not to forget”

-Marat Gubaydullin:

“How could I!”

END

     At the same time messaging in Facebook with other lower. 

Messaging with Trubadur 1

TRANSLATION

-Sasha Troubadour

“Wanna your ass”

-Inna Stiblina:

😉

-Sasha Troubadour

“Are my messages sweet enough?”

-Inna Stiblina:

“Yes, I’m smiling all the time J))”

-Sasha Troubadour

“And what ’s happening DOWN there?)”

-Inna Stiblina:

Something happening;)))

-Sasha Troubadour

“Flow like a river, moan my name. Let’s be another people together”

-Inna Stiblina:

“It is inappropriate now ;))) Nobody will understand ;)”

-Sasha Troubadour

“Mentally”

-Inna Stiblina:

“Will you feel?”

-Sasha Troubadour

“Depends on you”

-Inna Stiblina:

“Gosh, can you have sex remotely? I got really hot”

-Sasha Troubadour

“There a little bit down the scar – the place of your sanctuary.  Place, you know. Flow, flow, flow.”

Trubadur 2

Trubadur 3

TRANSLATION

-Sasha Troubadour

“I see

How is my toy girl?))”

-Inna Stiblina

“Is it in general or something in particular, I still don’t know that you like to play with more;))))”

-Sasha Troubadour

Hmmmm)

Sit down Stiblina, A+)”

pussy, clit, ass, tits, nipples, belly, ear, mouth in a certain way”

-Inna Stiblina

“I understood that in general ;))”

-Sasha Troubadour

“I wanna put something inside to you)”

-Inna Stiblina

“You can keep an intrigue

Will your son be at your place on Friday?”

-Sasha Troubadour

“So what?

I’ll come to you in the morning. He is at my place until 8 p.m. on Friday.”

-Inna Stiblina

“On Friday, I won’t be free from  8 a.m. – 7 p.m., I’ve racked my brains L And I want to see you so much today, but I know it is problematic. I think my husband will take the son to his place for all next week. Maybe, it will easy things.

Call me”

END

Well, what can we say: “She can keep an intrigue”.

Drochilovo 07012016

TRANSLATION

-Sasha Troubadour

“I’ve got a hard-on)”

-Inna Stiblina

“Again?”

-Sasha Troubadour

“It is morning”

-Inna Stiblina

“Is it always so?”

-Sasha Troubadour

“And it isn’t in you”

-Inna Stiblina

“It is all over again J)).. I hadn’t fallen asleep until I came.”

-Sasha Troubadour

“Have you come?”

-Inna Stiblina

“Is it surprising you?

Very nice by the way”

-Sasha Troubadour

“No

I haven’t seen it”

-Inna Stiblina

“Nobody has seen it)))

I’m just kidding J”

-Sasha Troubadour

“Were you thinking of me?”

-Inna Stiblina

“yeah”

END

           Former husband has commented on the situation:

“From the beginning I had the opportunity to read and browse everything. At first I just laughed, then I wanted to call psychiatrist, then just documented everything. Intelligence level, moral character, life values, priorities and overall psychological state of my ex-wife concerned me before. What, in fact, it was the reason for the divorce. There was not much of surprise. But I still hoped that there was at least one wise man who would give the right advice to avoid unnecessary casualties. Unfortunately, there wasn’t. But how she would deal with son – I couldn’t even imagine. And most importantly, what for? She had a cynical plan, lied to the police in front of a child and put him in prison for juveniles twice – a kind, mentally balanced, good boy, her son for the sake of her own of benefits? That caused the child a strong moral trauma for the rest of life. There is no excuse for this. I would not have believed in it if someone simply, without evidence, told such a story. Even now, in order to justify her actions, she dissolves the improbable rumors – a child psychopath, husband is a gangster and one of the leaders of the Russian mafia in America, and she is a good and unhappy woman. Well, then read on and make your own conclusions. “

          The psychological state of Inna does cause concern. Frequent consumption of alcoholic beverages (in fact, every day), panic attacks that were increasingly difficult to manage on her own. (see below):

Panic Attac

 TRANSLATION

-Inna Stiblina

“Well, talking to yourself 😉

Honey, write me something from time to time, any stuff, well, of course, if you have time”

-Marat Gubaydullin

“Ok, sure, just to support?”

-Inna Stiblina

“To distract”

-Marat Gubaydullin

“From what? ( if you want – don’t answer what to distract from)

what you mean, if you don’t want to”

-Inna Stiblina

“I have never had it before, some panic attacks, trying to deal with them, it is difficult”

-Marat Gubaydullin

“Oh my god, don’t give up

I’ll write, where are you actually now?”

-Inna Stiblina

“I’m going home from Morgan’s”

END

“Liberated woman of the East” changed sexual partners to “soothe the soul” and in the search for “Sugar Daddy” (some of them at the same time). Within a short period of time: Marat Gubayadullin (45 years old) Sasha Troubadour (45 years old), Denis Derkach (30 years old), Exley Mixon (62 years old), Jody Hilton (53 years old – current one). There were others, but we will not delve into the “dirty laundry.”

Well, next thing is a clear detrimental effect of cheap brandy on the already weak psyche. The family was still living under the same roof. Waking up in the morning, either with a hangover or for any other reason, Inna decided that her husband is going to go to the court for Restrained Order on her. Her social networks became hysterical. Although there was nothing of a kind. Was there a reason to worry so much and make a fuss? May be it was? (See below):

Restrained Order

TRANSLATION

-Inna Stiblina

“Darling, call me”

-Marat Gubaydullin

“Don’t worry and keep on calling the lawyer”

-Inna Stiblina

Obviously, I won’t get into my house today

-Marat Gubaydullin

“So, have you called once again?

Call them, tell that it is an emergency and goddammit you’ve been a month with them and haven’t spoken yet

You also wanted to get a loan.”

-Inna Stiblina

“I’ve talked. She is at the court now, she’ll call when she can. If I come home today, I’ll call about loan

I’ve sent you Tala’s phone number, just in case”

Restrained Order 2

TRANSLATION

-Marat Gubaydullin

“Have you been at work since morning?

He probably printed it out and forgot. And then made up a claim.

It seems he lives in his own imaginary world, making plans, building castles, he cannot just toss you out on the street.

I think it was intentionally

Can you imagine – a husband tosses a wife out on the street. Imagine it is in the news. How will police and a judge responsible for that look like?”

-Inna Stiblina

Maybe intentionally, to make you nervous.

-Marat Gubaydullin

“On the contrary, don’t be nervous.

They’ll put in jail and then figure out

Yeah, imagine the attitude of the judge? Will he bruise himself? Or bite?

The victim of domestic violence calmly prints out the documents, fills them in, goes to court, submits them to the judge and the judge orders to arrest him? Without witnesses, without anything?”

-Inna Stiblina

“I left money and jewelry at Attiia, but I sent the phone to you”

-Marat Gubaydullin

“Yes, I’ve got it”

-Inna Stiblina

“In case, you need to pay off the prison”

END

But Inna’s intention really was to get Restrained Order on her husband that she had discussed with her lawyer. (see below)

“Wazhma, I got to design, that I want to do restrained order on Sergey because I am going to start the process about his emigration fraud and I am afraid on him because this person is not predictable. We already have a horrible situation with my son, he is totally brainwashed by my husband. Tonight we again have to call cops because Daniel was running around the apartment complex and behave not adequately. It is going nowhere.”

Restrained order on husband

                    Perhaps the previous story was just for justify her actions?

                 Stiblina tried to prepare for the Mediation appointment and first court meeting in such a way. When all attempts failed, and on the contrary, such manipulation can be a serious argument in favor of the husband in court, Inna and her daughter Valeria began manipulating the son. As the child said: “My mother told me that my father plans to take me to Russia forever, and I will never see my friends again. I did not want it. So I told my dad I wanted to be half the time with him and half with my mother… “The boy told Mediator Mrs. Joyce Medari the same.

The Mediation process later itself raised many questions from husband’s lawyers, and especially the professional quality of the mediator. The decision, which the mediator made the day before the trial, was beyond any logic.

Mediator

                  According to the laws of the State of California and the Sacramento County, it is the Mediator decision which is fundamental to the court decision on Child Custody. The next day Stiblina and her lawyer said the judge fully accepted conclusion of the Mediator for a ruling on Child Custody, and the judge made a decision without any discussion. The husband and his lawyer did not agree with the conclusion of the Mediator and the judge’s decision, and according to the procedure, they appointed an independent Mediator to undergo it all over again. Child Support and Spouse Support, as well as reimbursement of lawyer costs by the husband (what the wife required), the court didn’t satisfy. For a more detailed investigation into the finances, three months later expected to be a trial (another court hearing), where, of course, all manipulations would come out (but it did not happen due to the further events). The same day, Inna shared her impressions with her “friends” of the first hearing in the social network: “They gave Full Custody of a child, but refused in Child Support, Spouse Support, as well as compensation for the costs of the lawyer services by the husband (Retained Fee). And what should I do with this Full Custody? ….. Especially the husband will fight for his son until the end. Turn into a working drudge? ….. ” To work as a cleaner she doesn’t want either. But nothing else “the liberated woman of the East” was able to do.

Don’t count out a prison cell, a begging bowl may come as well, even on kids.

Further mother’s actions cannot be justified. After court, the mother announced her son that she received Full Custody and now he must follow her rules in her apartments. The child realized that he was just cheated. He wanted 50/50 and both parents promised it. Conflict began, because the boy wanted to spend more time with his father. The mother forbade him saying it was the court decision and frankly lying that the father did not want to see him. The day after the court (July 22nd, 2016, Friday) 3 hours before the father custody time a child ran away from Ina to his father. (see below):

Daniel Run to father app

               The father, meanwhile, was trying to soothe his son and to mitigate the situation. He explained that he should not worry and that the lawyers were working and soon everything would be solved legally. (see below):

Daniel Run 2

Danie Run 3

            The next day, the situation repeated and Inna called the police once again, but for her child. See below an excerpt from the police report:

Police Report 1

                 The police report shows that mother and sister have abused their power in relation to 11-year-old child in order to limit his meetings with the father. The child was forced to defend himself. When talking to a police officer, the boy said he would rather go to jail than return back. The same, he wrote to his mother. (see below)

Daniel Responce

TRANSLATION

-Marat Gubaydullin

“Call me as soon as you can. I’m really worried. I should have written down Lera’s phone number”

-Inna Stiblina

“No, not normal

I’ll call soon

This is what Daniel sent me (see picture)”

-Marat Gubaydullin

“What was at the police?”

-Inna Stiblina

“I’ll call and tell

Cannot explain it so simply

He has worked him up, bastard”

-Marat Gubaydullin

“I’ve thought so

You need FBI

I was shocked”

END

The same thing happened the next day on Sunday. It was obvious that it would have been better for all, and especially for the child, to avoid unnecessary stress, the child needed to stay at least for a time with his father. But the mother did not think so. She demanded to bring her son back home on Monday, July 26th, 2016 up to 7 pm, based on the judgment of Custody. The father explained to his son that that was a necessary measure, that for now there was no other choice. They must wait for the court until August 10th and change the Custody Agreement. When he returned home, the mother started the educational process. According to the child: “My mother told me that if I continue behaving badly and ask to meet the dad, she would forbid me to see him at all because she has the right to do so. She took my phone, which my father gave me and demanded a code to see my messages. I refused. And promised to tell the father that the mother together with my sister made me tell lies to the mediator that dad was bad. Moreover, she constantly scolded dad using swear words in my presence. She made me very angry. I tried to take my phone from my sister, but they did not give it to me and I began to turn over everything in the room and I ran outside. “

After all the stress during last three days, the child was very easy to annoy. The sister, following her mother orders, recorded everything on her phone all the time – it served as an evidence of his bad behavior when police were called. At the insistence of the mother, the 11-year-old boy was taken by the police to the prison for juveniles. As it turned out, Inna was planning to do so to break the child’s will for the last two days, as the manipulation with the son might emerge, and his unexpected reaction to the court’s decision could destroy all plans to obtain Child Support. (see below):

Planning Daniel in Jail

TRANSLATION

-Inna Stiblina

Do you have anyone….who sees

I need to solve one important thing

-Sasha Troubadour

“I’ve spent all weekends with such people

Ladamira”

-Inna Stiblina

Everything is in the asshole 

Need to make a difficult decision

-Sasha Troubadour

Which one?

-Inna Stiblina

“I cannot just explain, so much have happened”

-Sasha Troubadour

“Ok. Call tomorrow then”

END

          It is an interesting quote from Sunday, July 25th , day before she put son in Jail: “Everything has been pounded in the asshole. In short, I have a difficult decision to make.” She decided to ask the Siberian shamans what to do with the son. But not only the shamans. (see below):

He need to be taken by police

TRANSLATION

-Inna Stiblina

“Hi, have you got an experience, there is a video where Daniel is smashing everything with a stick, swearing, trying to take the phone away from Lera. It repeats. Where to apply to stop him?

Do you have a relative, lets us get in touch”

-Marat Gubaydullin

To police?

-Inna Stiblina

“I call them every day

-Marat Gubaydullin

“Let them take him”

-Inna Stiblina

“It isn’t that easy”

-Marat Gubaydullin

“What relative are you talking about? I don’t get it. It is easier for me with Nathan, we don’t have custody issues, he has abnormalities. I don’t know what to recommend from my experience.

I think the arrest will sober him. What about police, they come and do what with him?”

END

Now let’s compare the photo below with the previous photo. Here is a result of the conflict of “a great player in the “Mafia” Marat Gubayadullin with his 13-year-old son. To solve the problem, he also calls the police (Inna Stiblina helps him). There have been several such incidents recently. Further puts his son to boarding school. The issue is settled. No one else interferes in playing “Mafia”.

Police na Marata kid 1

Police na Marata Kid 2

TRANSLATION

-Inna Stiblina

“Are you writing to me?”

-Marat Gubaydullin

“Very urgent, please

We locked in the room

He is smashing all around there”

-Inna Stiblina

“I’ve called – they are coming”

-Marat Gubaydullin

“They’ve come

SOS

Ooops

I’ll call later

Can I call?”

END

             I wonder: “Is there free bonus as Vaseline in such a game as ” Mafia “? It could be useful”. Very interesting.

            The next day, Tuesday, July 27th the child was dropped with the charges and released. According to his words: “His mother and sister were waiting in the lobby. I was taken to them. Father wasn’t there. Mother told me it was a good lesson for my behavior, and that right now I have to tell her the code on my phone, otherwise, I will never see it again. I said that she would have to kill me, but I would not tell her the code and tried to pick up her bag where my phone was. I wanted to call my father so he took me out of here. Sister started pulling me off. Police ran at the noise. I heard mother told them that I threatened her and tried to kill her. I said or did nothing of the kind. I was again handcuffed and taken away.” This time the child was charged with threatening to murder and murder attempt, and was left in prison for 6 days before the trial, which took place on August 1st, 2016. To provoke son for a second time, during release, in front of the police!!! Wasn’t it possible to decide these questions in the car or at home? But the plans were others. And this monster can still be called a mother? See photo below.

Zabrali v Jail

TRANSLATION

-Inna Stiblina

“Well

They took him away”

-Marat Gubaydullin

“To police station?”

-Inna Stiblina

Juvenile hall

-Marat Gubaydullin

“L sorry, but that needed to be done”

-Inna Stiblina

“It was awful”

END

Quote: “It was terrible.” And on the photo below, it is obvious that Inna was thinking how awful it was, making plans for the future, but near lake “Tahoe” with friends, while her son was in prison. Being sad in such a way is probably much nicer. And what is even more cynical is the fact that her photos in Facebook were on public display. It is a high-class acting.

The father of the child hired the best lawyers to release his son. Every day he visited the child during the permitted time and supported as could. Son refused from two visits of his mother and she did not come over. There were sleepless nights, plenty of documents during this week. It was the preparation for the trial. At the trial, the boy said that when he was released, that would leave only with his father. Otherwise, he refused to be released and ready to go to boarding school, but not back to his mother. I can imagine the expression of police and the judiciary. (see below):

Violations 1

Violations  The court released the child. In connection with serious charges, there were three more hearings, but after 5 months all ended well – Case Dismiss. Mother wasn’t involved financially or anyhow. She continued “sadness” in search of “sugar daddy” and blaming her ex-husband, friends and the lawyer. (see below)

Shugar Deddy

TRANSLATION

-Sasha Troubadour

“And find a sugar daddy. You are beautiful ))))”

-Inna Stiblina

“Where to search?”

-Sasha Troubadour

Lol))

-Inna Stiblina

I’m not only beautiful

-Sasha Troubadour

What else?)))

I’m driving

END

The role of the lawyer Mrs. Wazhma Mojaddidi and her recommendation (from the words of the Inna herself at one of the meetings) to put the child in prison for educational purposes – not to complicate the situation with upcoming trials – raises the question of qualification of the above-mentioned person. But that is another story. Later, she was fired and another lawyer was taken who ended the case.

Custody Agreement was completely changed. Divorce process was completed. Today, father and son live happily together. The child completely refused to communicate with his mother and has not even talked to her since. But all these events left, apparently, deep mark on the heart and nervous system of the child. And much effort needed for these wounds to heal. And the husband himself has no desire to even talk to his ex-wife after all his wife’s sneaky actions.

Mother tries to reconnect with her son, but somehow in a very strange way. Obviously, in order to justify her recent actions, she continues to dismiss the improbable rumors about the son and ex-husband, and then writes compassionate letters to her ex-husband – on the advice of others, so that he helped to restore at least some relationship with the son. (see below)

 

 

        But who, if not a fortune teller, can tell her what to do?????

fortune teller

TRANSLATION

-Inna Stiblina

“Hello Galina, congratulations with the holidays!

Do you remember me or not? You’ve palmed me in summer, at the end of May exactly during camping. If you remember, it was very unpleasant, but it is becoming clear and one thing is worrying me. I won’t explain long, can you predict my fate once again?”

-Galina Glazyrina

“Hello, Inna. Congratulations to you, too! Of course, I remember. I would be happy to help.J”

-Inna Stiblina

“Thank a lot, do we have to meet or are there any other variants? I live in Folsom. I’ve got a big trouble with a son.”

-Galina Glazyrina

“Of course, better personally…But we can try Skype.”

-Inna Stiblina

“Let’s try it via Skype. When will you have some time? I’m leaving tomorrow until Wednesday.”

END

You can follow a very interesting tendency from the written above. Ex-wife accuses the husband of criminal actions while she conducts criminal manipulation with taxes, with state programs, hiding income and deceives the court by providing false information. Ex-wife accuses the husband of manipulation with the child, while she manipulates the two children to achieve her goals. She blames the son and ex-husband in the mental inadequacy, while she has a serious psychological disorder, and possibly mental illness. She accuses her ex-husband that he lets her in restoring relations with the son, while she hasn’t done anything specifically for this. Words only. Interesting tactics.

          Perhaps Inna needs to consult the experts to determine the diagnosis and further treatment, and not to rely on psychological tests on the internet and fortune tellers for complacency. (see below)

Psihiatr Diagnoz Facebook

TRANSLATION

-Inna Stiblina

“And it makes me happy =P

Get your diagnosis from the physicist

No abnormalities

Get your diagnosis from the physicist

Take a test and find out”

END

            “Ask, and it will be given to you; search, and you will find; knock, and the door will be opened to you. Everyone who asks receives; everyone who searches finds; everyone who knocks will have the door opened.”

                                                                                             The gospel according to St. Matthew, Chapter 7, verse 7.

     People face different situations in their lives and often not very pleasant. Divorce is one of these events. We deserve it or not – who knows? But one thing is clear – children do not deserve a nightmare, which the child’s mother has created in our story in the process of divorce. What do you do when something like this happens, or can it happen to you? We must fight, not give up, firstly, and take into account the interests of the children. Secondly, you need a help of a good lawyer. Yes, it’s not cheap but not prohibitive. Well, where have you seen something good and cheap? But believe me – it’s worth it. In the end, you will feel and understand.

A special thanks to the Divorce lawyers – Konstantin Zhukovsky and Alan Mikshansky. For their professionalism, for their understanding, for human relation. It is important.

Never lose your face. In any situation, remain a human being.

We live, we learn from our own and others’ mistakes, we become wiser and more experienced. (Not all, of course).

            “Is there anyone among you who would hand his son a stone when he asked for bread? Or would hand him a snake when he asked for a fish?  If you, then, evil as you are, know how to give your children what is good, how much more will your Father in heaven give good things to those who ask him! So always treat others as you would like them to treat you; that is the Law and the Prophets.”

The gospel according to St. Matthew, Chapter 7, verse 9.

SEEMS LIKE WOULD HAND….

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